10 Signs That It’s Time To
Spring Clean Your Love Life

(Plus – Tips on How to Do it!)

Darryl L. Mobley

Spring is right around the corner and I recently completed a show/presentation on why you need to Spring Clean your relationship. Folks loved it and I decided I should share it with you. To listen to this 55 minute presentation, just click on the link below.

By the way – I have included with this column (below the link) my message to you from earlier in the year. (A Baker’s Dozen list of stupid things that you could do this year.) It was so popular and seemed to impact so many that I thought it right to put it to you again since we are now almost a quarter of the way through the year(!!).

CLICK HERE to Spring Clean Your Relationship.

12 (13) Stupid Things
You COULD Do This Year
(but I hope you don’t!)

This isn’t me, but… Yes! I have wrestled a gator before. I know ‘ridiculous’ things to do!

This isn't me. But - I have wrestled a gator before! Pretty foolish.

1. Not use the awesome power of daily To-Do lists.

2. Not set weekly, monthly, and yearly personal goals.

3. Not decide who you really love.

4. Not set weekly, monthly, and yearly professional goals.

5. Not read books that make you better.

6. Not form your own powerful mastermind group of people who are even more committed to success than you are.

7. Not decide the five things about yourself that you will change this year (month? week? day?)

8. Not develop a Relationship Agenda with your significant other.

9. Not establish development goals for your children.

10. Not communicate regularly with someone who will make you better, happier, or more fulfilled.

Don't Do It!

11. Not ask your teenage children to give you a list of the 15 things that they want you to help them learn over the rest of the year.

12. Not show your love to those you love every single day.

13. Spend any time with those who enable you to drink too much, laugh too little, smoke, be depressed, be

It’s all about choices.

Lover. Fighter. What’s the difference?

Are you a lover or a fighter? Is your relationship heaven-on-earth or a living hell? Take Darryl Mobley’s Lover or Fighter 20 Question Quiz below and find out.

1. Have you ever become so upset with your significant other that you became violent?

2. Have most of your past relationships been filled with conflict?

3. Do you get into an argument with your significant other at least once a week?

4. Have any of your relationships ever ended because of your mood, anger, or temper?

5. Have you ever said to, or done things with, your significant other, in anger that you came to regret?

6. Do you have a difficult time expressing remorse when you have made a mistake?

7. Do you believe that your relationship is more interesting because of the constant conflict?

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8. Do you believe that getting into regular fights with your significant other just shows that you really care?

9. Do you have fights with your significant other and often can’t remember what you are fighting about?

10. Do you find yourself waiting for your significant other to piss you off again?

11. As far as your relationships go, do you believe – and live by – the adage that “opposites attract”?

12. Are you often asked to ‘calm down’?

13. Do other people say that you are stubborn?

14. Have you been told more than once that you ‘fly off the handle’ or have a bad temper?

15. Do you think that fighting with your significant other is okay as long as it does not become physical?

16. Were your parents generally argumentative, sullen, spiteful, nitpicky, or negative with each other?

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17. Are you an alcoholic?

18. Have you ever withheld intimacy to punish your significant other?

19. Have you ever gotten really angry with your significant other when they have arrived late for dinner with you because of an emergency at work?

20. Have you ever lived with an alcoholic?

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There is no magic score with my Lover or Fighter 20 question quiz. However, generally speaking, your relationship is not near blissful if you answered, “yes” to more than a very, very few of my 20 quiz questions. I believe in the primacy of a peaceful, loving relationship. If you would rather be a lover than a fighter in your relationship, get focused on replacing the bad habits as evinced by your “yes” answers by CLICKING HERE.

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Coupled, Married, and Single Men and Women:

Are You Ready to Have The Relationship You’ve Always Dreamed Of…
NO Arguing,
NO Bad Feelings,
NO Cheating,
NO Nagging, and. . . (wait for it)
GREAT INTIMACY?

by Darryl L. Mobley

Yes. I know. You are feeling tons of pressure right about now because you need to pull off this whole Mother’s Day thing. Every single year the holiday pops up. The TV Ads make it so that your one-and-only is on high-alert. And the peer pressure is intense, if only because “Mr. Perfect Husband” down the street is so darn creative!

But – I’ve got your back because this is a game you must play to win. The great day is right around the corner, which means you don’t have much time. So, let’s cut to the chase. A mother’s love is one of the most powerful forces in this world. I’ve got 48 ways to celebrate her love this Mother’s Day. Pick 1, 2 or more ways to make this Mother’s Day extra special for your wife, mom, girlfriend, or other love of your life.

Drum roll please. Here They Are!

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That’s Darryl’s Bulldog puppy in the photo. He brings it to the office all the time. It has nothing to do with this show. We just think it’s cute!

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On Parenting…

Imagine creating positive change in your household…

…change that will reduce parent-child conflict;
…change that will reduce your stress-level significantly; and
…change that will increase the likelihood that your child will be a success — both at school and in life.

On Relationships…

Imagine creating positive change in your key relationship…

…change that will reduce conflict between you and your significant other;
…change that will reduce the level of stress in your current or future relationship significantly; and
…change that will increase the likelihood that your relationship will bring you joy and fulfillment.

If You Are Interested In Parenting or Relationships…

Complete the form below and Darryl will provide you with a FREE Special Report on How to Be a Great Parent and How to Get Into and Keep a Loving Relationship.

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by Darryl L. Mobley –

When was the last time you enjoyed a night out with your mate? I mean a date that did not include the kids, random friends, or unnecessary family members? If this kind of alone-time is a distant memory to you — then your relationship needs some new energy. Some sizzle. Some snap. Okay – even some sex for those of you who are so inclined. (You know who you are!)

Here’s the deal — If you don’t re-energize your relationship, your relationship will wither up and die. And you will despair as your once tight connection to your spouse becomes one in which you are – as the great, late Richard Pryor said in a comedy riff – “in love with a person you can’t stand!” Oh yes – it can happen to you.

The 4 tips that follow will help you keep your marriage fresh and alive: