10 Signs That It’s Time To
Spring Clean Your Love Life

(Plus – Tips on How to Do it!)

Darryl L. Mobley

Spring is right around the corner and I recently completed a show/presentation on why you need to Spring Clean your relationship. Folks loved it and I decided I should share it with you. To listen to this 55 minute presentation, just click on the link below.

By the way – I have included with this column (below the link) my message to you from earlier in the year. (A Baker’s Dozen list of stupid things that you could do this year.) It was so popular and seemed to impact so many that I thought it right to put it to you again since we are now almost a quarter of the way through the year(!!).

CLICK HERE to Spring Clean Your Relationship.

12 (13) Stupid Things
You COULD Do This Year
(but I hope you don’t!)

This isn’t me, but… Yes! I have wrestled a gator before. I know ‘ridiculous’ things to do!

This isn't me. But - I have wrestled a gator before! Pretty foolish.

1. Not use the awesome power of daily To-Do lists.

2. Not set weekly, monthly, and yearly personal goals.

3. Not decide who you really love.

4. Not set weekly, monthly, and yearly professional goals.

5. Not read books that make you better.

6. Not form your own powerful mastermind group of people who are even more committed to success than you are.

7. Not decide the five things about yourself that you will change this year (month? week? day?)

8. Not develop a Relationship Agenda with your significant other.

9. Not establish development goals for your children.

10. Not communicate regularly with someone who will make you better, happier, or more fulfilled.

Don't Do It!

11. Not ask your teenage children to give you a list of the 15 things that they want you to help them learn over the rest of the year.

12. Not show your love to those you love every single day.

13. Spend any time with those who enable you to drink too much, laugh too little, smoke, be depressed, be

It’s all about choices.

Lover. Fighter. What’s the difference?

Are you a lover or a fighter? Is your relationship heaven-on-earth or a living hell? Take Darryl Mobley’s Lover or Fighter 20 Question Quiz below and find out.

1. Have you ever become so upset with your significant other that you became violent?

2. Have most of your past relationships been filled with conflict?

3. Do you get into an argument with your significant other at least once a week?

4. Have any of your relationships ever ended because of your mood, anger, or temper?

5. Have you ever said to, or done things with, your significant other, in anger that you came to regret?

6. Do you have a difficult time expressing remorse when you have made a mistake?

7. Do you believe that your relationship is more interesting because of the constant conflict?

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8. Do you believe that getting into regular fights with your significant other just shows that you really care?

9. Do you have fights with your significant other and often can’t remember what you are fighting about?

10. Do you find yourself waiting for your significant other to piss you off again?

11. As far as your relationships go, do you believe – and live by – the adage that “opposites attract”?

12. Are you often asked to ‘calm down’?

13. Do other people say that you are stubborn?

14. Have you been told more than once that you ‘fly off the handle’ or have a bad temper?

15. Do you think that fighting with your significant other is okay as long as it does not become physical?

16. Were your parents generally argumentative, sullen, spiteful, nitpicky, or negative with each other?

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17. Are you an alcoholic?

18. Have you ever withheld intimacy to punish your significant other?

19. Have you ever gotten really angry with your significant other when they have arrived late for dinner with you because of an emergency at work?

20. Have you ever lived with an alcoholic?

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There is no magic score with my Lover or Fighter 20 question quiz. However, generally speaking, your relationship is not near blissful if you answered, “yes” to more than a very, very few of my 20 quiz questions. I believe in the primacy of a peaceful, loving relationship. If you would rather be a lover than a fighter in your relationship, get focused on replacing the bad habits as evinced by your “yes” answers by CLICKING HERE.

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